Veteran actress Ayo Mogaji has urged women over the age of 35 to prioritise motherhood, even outside of wedlock if they wish to have children.
Ayo Mogaji shared her views during a recent interview with Oyinmomo TV, where she discussed societal pressures, marriage and motherhood.
The 60-year-old who gave birth to her first child at the age of 40, adviced unmarried women over 35 to consider having children with a partner even if marriage is not in the immediate plans.
Ayo Mogaji encouraged women in such situations to pursue motherhood regardless of the man’s willingness to take responsibility for the child. In her words:
Drawing from her personal experiences, Ayo Mogaji spoke about the societal pressures she faced.
She eventually married UK-based physiotherapist Victor Oduleye in 2006 after enduring 13 years of emotional abuse in a previous relationship.
Reflecting on these experiences, she stressed the importance of prioritising personal happiness and fulfillment over societal expectations.
The actress also touched on the challenges faced by older women seeking marriage, suggesting that age can sometimes be a barrier in finding a husband.
She emphasised that women should focus on building their families instead of waiting for marriage to fulfill their desire for children. Ayo Mogaji added:
Ayo Mogaji encouraged women to seize the opportunity for motherhood when it presents itself, either through pregnancy or adoption rather than allowing societal norms to dictate their choices. She advised:
